People do arrange marriages, love marriages.
They live together, they love each other, life seems to be happy. But after some time, every relationship gets into some kind of problems, they can be financial, or the lack of mutual understanding.
This leads to the disturbance between the couples, and this starts making one dominate the other, just to win.
Generally males disrespect by saying harsh words to their woman, in public or in home, which makes the woman just quiet, and the relationship starts degrading.
Abuses are of different kind, verbal abuse, written abuse.
One person should never avoid the abuses, because if you will do so, then It will become his habbit, and he will do it again.
So never let anybody disrespect you, whether you are right or wrong,Never.